Friday, May 30, 2008

oh, what a night.

  1. I think I have the ability to sit in front of my laptop forever.
  2. I think I'm going to download some old movies. Like Breakfast at Tiffany's. And Marry Poppins. I kinda miss Julie Andrews.
  3. I think I spend money too easily.

It's a rainy, cold night. Perfect for a good book.
But we are going out. Another series of Girl's Night Out. Will post photos later.



Midvalley MegaMall Dangerous Experience - Could happen anywhere

About a month ago there was a woman standing by the Mega Mall entrance passing out flyers to all the women going in. The woman had written the flyer herself to tell about an experience she had, so that she might warn other women.

The previous day, this woman had finished shopping, went out to her car and discovered that she had a flat. She got the jack out of the trunk and began to change the flat. A nice man dressed in business suit and carrying a briefcase walked up to her and said,

'I notice you're changing a flat tire. Would you like me to take care of it for you?'

The woman was grateful for his offer and accepted his help. They chatted amiably while the man changed the flat, and then put the flat tire and the jack in the trunk, shut it and dusted his hands off.

The woman thanked him profusely, and as she was about to get in her car, the man told her that he left his car around on the other side of the mall, and asked if she would mind giving him a lift to his car. She was a little surprised and asked him why his car was on the other side. He explained that he had met an old friend in the mall whom he hadn't seen for some time and they had a bite to eat and visited for a while; he got turned around in the mall and left through the wrong exit, and now he was running late and his car was clear around on the other side of the mall.

The woman hated to tell him 'no' because he had just rescued her from having to change her flat tire all by herself, but she felt uneasy. Then she remembered seeing the man put his briefcase in her trunk before shutting it and before he asked her for the ride to his car.

She told him that she'd be happy to drive him to his car, but she just remembered one last thing she needed to buy. She said she would only be a few minutes; he could sit down in her car and wait for her; she would be as quick as she could be. She hurried into the mall, and told a security guard what had happened; the guard came out to her car with her, but the man had left.

They opened the trunk, took out his locked briefcase and took it down to the police station. The police opened it (ostensibly to look for ID so they could return it to the man). What they found was rope, duct tape and knives.

When the police checked her 'flat' tire, there was nothing wrong with it; the air had simply been let out. It was obvious what the man's motive was, and obvious that he had carefully thought it out in advance.

The woman was blessed to have escaped harm. How much worse it would have been had she waited in the car while the man fixed the tire, or if she had a baby strapped into a car seat. Or if she'd gone against her judgment and given him a lift.

Please forward this to all the women you know. It may save a life.


Oh, Awal Ashaari.

You made my knees go weak.


Thursday, May 29, 2008

things that made my day

  • 12 hours of sleep
  • good hair day
  • McDonald's
  • Ally McBeal

song of the day: The Killers - All These Things I've Done


There's no weakness in forgiving.
So start forgiving, people.
Being angry won't get you anywhere.


Wednesday, May 28, 2008

optical illusions

Optical illusions are super cool, don't you think? Have fun! ;)

There are 10 faces in the picture.

Find a girl.

There is a hidden man's face in this picture of pebbles.

You saw a couple in an intimate pose, right?

Interestingly, research has shown that young children cannot identify the intimate couple because they do not have prior memory associated with such a scenario.

What they WILL see, however, is the nine dolphins in the picture!

So, I guess we've already proven you're not a young innocent child :p If it's hard for you to find the dolphins within 6 seconds, your mind is indeed corrupt and you probably need help LOL

thank God I found you, H.

Recently, I was going through this phase where I wasn’t content with what I have. Relationship-wise. I used to think that I am Ms. Perfect and I was waiting for my Mr. Perfect to just come strolling my way one day. Well guess what hiddie, there is no Mr. Perfect. Why? Because nobody is perfect. Tragic. But true.

A good friend of mine once told me, if you love someone gotta love it all. The good and the bad. People come with packages, or a baggage should I say, filled with memories, bad habits, ambitions, hobbies, and many more. And I have to love them all. There is no such thing as loving only the good side of a person. Me being me, I usually ask the guy I’m dating to change. For a better cause. And to suit my preference, of course. Yeah we (girls) all do that, don't we? But heyy, there’s got to be a line. You can’t expect someone to change his way of life just for your convenience. What about him? Most of the guys I know could adapt; somehow accept my flaws, my quirkiness, my craziness and a lot of other things that I don’t even notice. Thank you. And lucky me. But that’s not fair. Come on girls, we are all smarter than that. Don’t sell yourself short. Toughen up. Accept their flaws as a challenge. Look at them from another perspective, and learn to love them. It could be fun, you know. Give it a shot.

My point is, I have learned my lesson. And it has finally sink in. Nobody is perfect. Nobody. I’m not perfect, you’re not perfect, we are all not perfect. Soooooo, I’m going to stop ‘test-driving’. (Don’t know what ‘test-driving’ means? Where have you been? :p ) It was fun while it lasts, the ‘test-driving’ thing. I certainly enjoyed the attention I've got. I thought I have finally found my internal fulfillment. But no no no no no no. Girls will NEVER find that internal fulfillment. Enough is never enough; I’m not ashamed to admit it. It’s in our nature. So let’s not punish our loved ones for that. Go on a shopping spree, work out or something. Fill the void doings things that you like. Spend sometime with yourself, allocate some 'me' time. It will make you fell better, trust me. Sometimes, it's just what we need.

Anywayyyy, I have found my Mr. Right. He was right there, by my side all along. He has never stopped loving me and what’s more important is he has NEVER stopped fighting for me. I love him dearly for that. H, I love you. I’m sorry for all the things I’ve done. I’m sorry I took you for granted. I am truly sorry. Please forgive me. So let’s turn on a new leaf, shall we? *hugs*



It's you and me against the world, baby :]

omg, really?

you are a wonderful person with a beautiful soul.

don't ever let anyone bring you down.

because you are you and thats what counts.



I am having a brain diarrhea. I have too many things in my head, it's coming out in chunks, all at once, poking in every direction. Need. To. Organize thoughts. Do a mind-map of something.

Anyway, these are what's on my mind right now:
  1. I am an engineer wey! Civil Engineer specializing in Building Construction Industry, to be exact. Neat huh?
  2. Oh Barney, I love you. Yeah, The Barney. Wadduuuuppp!
  3. Maybe I should cut my hair short again
  4. Need to lose weight to rock a short 'do though
  5. Ally McBeal

hello, you

been thinking about having a blog for a while. i even have a list of what to write lol
so here is the first post *wink*